Welcome! I help people with a wide range of concerns, though specialize in therapy for teens and adults experiencing anxiety, relationship concerns, and emotional sensitivity. My approach combines gold-standard treatments with compassion and non-judgment.
dr. Danielle esses; clinical psychologist
therapy in CA and NY
I value making therapy feel unintimidating and welcome you to reach out even if things feel messy.
Danielle Esses, PsyD (CA: PSY 36160, NY: 027627) is a clinical psychologist providing therapy in Beverly Hills and across California and New York via telehealth. Patients describe her as both gentle and straightforward — someone who maintains deep curiosity, builds trust through authenticity, and keeps them accountable without judgment.
Dr. Esses specializes in therapy for anxiety, relationship challenges, emotional sensitivity, and borderline personality disorder in adults and teens.
Danielle Esses, PsyD (CA: PSY 36160, NY: 027627) is a clinical psychologist providing therapy in Beverly Hills and across California and New York via telehealth. Patients describe her as both gentle and straightforward — someone who offers honest feedback, builds trust through authenticity, and keeps them accountable without judgment.
Dr. Esses specializes in therapy for anxiety, relationship challenges, emotional sensitivity, impulsivity, and borderline personality disorder in adults and young adults. Her patients are often thoughtful and big-hearted, and sometimes have trouble "trusting themselves" or find that they act before thinking. She also works with first responders and other professionals who have learned to shut off emotions to get through difficult work, though now feel disconnected or numb at home.
Meet Dr. danielle Esses
- Relationship issues
- Emotional sensitivity
- Borderline personality disorder (more on BPD here).
- Anxiety and obsessive compulsive patterns
- Depression
- Self-harm and suicidality
- Occupational stress and trauma (e.g., among healthcare workers, first responders)
specialties
Dr. Esses blends her expertise in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) - a present-focused and practical approach - with a psychodynamic understanding of how past experiences and current relational dynamics shape emotional life.
approach
As a twin, I grew up intimately familiar with both contrast and connection, an early lesson in holding paradox. My personality and therapeutic style reflect the contrast of the two coasts that have shaped me: I resonate with New York’s grit and authenticity, which shows up in my directness and sense of humor. I equally identify with California’s openness and calm, reflected in my commitment to groundedness, curiosity, and validation.
As a twin, I grew up intimately familiar with both contrast and connection, an early lesson in holding paradox. My personality and therapeutic style reflect the contrast of the two coasts that have shaped me: I resonate with New York’s grit and authenticity, which shows up in my directness and sense of humor. I equally identify with California’s openness and calm, reflected in my commitment to groundedness, curiosity, and validation.
She draws on other evidence-based approaches when helpful. Her work is grounded in slowing down together, noticing emotional patterns as they unfold in the therapy space, and building the insight and regulation needed to create lasting change.
next steps
Initial consultation call
Complimentary consultation calls are for those who are considering therapy and would like to explore next steps. This is a time for us to get to know each other and for me to answer any questions you may have.
Many people reach out feeling unsure or conflicted — you don’t need to have everything figured out before contacting me.
*Please note that I do not accept insurance.